Change your story, change your life

During the time we create many stories about different areas of our lives: relationships, money, our own abilities, our own worth, body, talents, life in general, other people etc. We’ve been and are influented by our parents, colleagues, media and society as such.

Let me list some stories I’ve heard lately from my friends, relatives, colleagues:

I am nobody. Those women are always picking up on me and they have something against me. My life has no meaning. Life is sad. I am afraid that…. I am concerned that…. They don’t appreciate me. They don’t see the real value of me. Who would ever pay for my services? I’m so bored. I am alone. I’m too old. The times will be even worse. Add your story: _______________________________________


There is plenty of similar stories going on in our heads. Maybe we are not even aware of them. Now look around. How do our lives look like? Not surprisingly, exactly in alignment with above stories, right? Universe is really kind and gives us everything that matches each and every our thought.

Do you ever ask yourself, what will you get in the future? According to The Law of Attraction – if we stick to old stories, more of the same. But we are so powerful, we are co – creators of life and all that is. Let take a stand and 100% responsibility for creation of our life. Let’s start changing our story!

What if above stories would sound like:

I am so unique and with my special set of skills I am as valuable as everybody else. I provide value just with that that I am. I create harmonius and peaceful relationship with myself and anybody I meet in my life. I know that my life is meaningful. Life is exciting and beautiful. I know this will work out good for everybody involved. I appreciate myself and others are mirroring the same appreciation back to me. I value myself and others value me just as I am. There are plenty people out there who need and are prepared to pay for my products and services. I’m really excited about developing existing projects and starting new ones. I am profoundly connected with everybody and everything in my life. At each age in my lifetime I am old just enough to get new experiences, to learn new things, to meet new people, to create whatever I want. At each point in time and in every moment I have a power to create my life and I accept full responsibility for what I create.

How do new stories feel compared to old ones? Great? Empowering? Create NEW, positive and better feeling stories for areas of your life where you feel the change would be welcomed. It is important, that you repeat new stories every day, as often as possible – only with the repetition the new thought will sit in and start changing your soroundings and life to better.

Now imagine that it is the year 2012 and you are telling how great the year 2011 was to your friend. Let your imagination fly and don’t stop yourself in any sense. What you really want in 2011? Write your story NOW!

To your success and to hearing about yours magical and miraculous year 2011!


Love , hughs and sparkles!







You are amazing just the way you are!

I bet you enter many conversations in which people are pointing at themselves or others with: »I have to lose weight.« »I am too…that and too this.«» My this is too big and my that is too small.« Do you? Implicit to every such conversation is that »there is something wrong with me/you« – regardless you are a man or a woman.

Sure I was there too. Until lately, when I discovered, how judgmental I am, not just towards others – especially towards myself.

I have to do that and that… than I will be ok. I should be like that and that… than I might be ok. And although I could made every and each of shoulda, woulda, coulda, it continues like wicious cycle. I’m never ok.

Beating ourselves, because we are not like our friend, neigbour, coworker, father, mother, because we don’t have big titles, a lot of money, bodies as models featured in fashion magazines or whatever is your perception of success and looking good, doesn’t serve us well.

Comparing yourself with anybody other than yourself is counterproductive. You, your progress on your personal journey is the only thing that counts. Are you more confident today than you were two years ago? Is your self – respect today on higher level than it was decades ago? Are you earning more money than you did in the past? Have you better support net and closer relationships to your beloved as months ago? Are you better at articulating your feelings and needs today than two weeks ago?

If your answer to any of these questions is yes, than you HAVE to be proud. On yourself. A nice tap on the shoulder and congratulations.

This is the only thing it counts. And a way which brings you happiness.

Are you able to love your belly, your nose, your head with hair running away from it, your lovely rounded back, your O shaped legs, your scars, your »flaws«? When you’ll be able to embrace every and each part of you – physical and non – physical – with love, kindness and respect, the miracles in your life will start to unfold.

Love inside – love outside. Are you still looking for the love on all the wrong places?

I am telling you: »You are amazing just the way you are!«

Start loving yourself today – it is never to late… step by step – you will transform your life from inside out.

This lovely inspiration for today’s post goes to Bruno Mars’ song – which I hear on the radio quite often lately. Thank you for the kind reminder, Universe!



Swearing is not nice but helps things let go

Yesterday I bumped with my back in the attick door. It was hurting like a hell and I admit at such times I am swearing like the one eyed pirate sailing the oceans (I saw that in the movies, don’t know if it is true :)). Although some might say, that talking like this is not appropriate for a nice lady as I am – I don’t care – swearing helps me let things go. In this case I was swering for a minute or even more, massaging my back and leaning on the door. Hey, it helped me that pain was bearable!

Also in  the world of deliberate creation, you have to let things go. I don’t like words like: have, must, should, because they imply kind of pressure and feeling of obligation. But as far I studied The Law Of Attraction, letting go is a must thing. 🙂

Being attached to the outcome, whatever that is: getting a raise,  a  job, new client, parking space, new friends, selling a house etc. shows to the Universe, that behind your “order” there is a fear of lack, fear that you’ll not get what you want. And The Universe matches that need behind not what you think you “think”. Attachment looks like you are thinking about that thing all the time and there is also a feeling of neediness present.

Just remember, when the things happen – when you release the attachment, when you forget (but not give up) about your cosmic order. Look back at your life and recall your manifestations. Getting money when you completely forgot about it, meeting a new love, when you just had fun in life without “seeking” for the one, getting parking lot – phew, exactly where you intented to find it and so on.

Let go, let go. Sometimes it helps if you simply f*** it!

If you have your own recipes for letting things go, please share them: I would love to have more tools in my manifesting tool box.


p.s. Ah, the same goes for complaining – if it helps to let things go, just do it. (although I would be suspicious about your belief, when it is a constant complaint, but more on this topic next time).

It only matters that you feel good

Think for a moment: what is behind your every wish? Behind every desire?

  • To have a lot of money
  • To have a love of your life
  • To have a nice car
  • To travel around the world
  • To find a job
  • I want to have (insert your desire) ____________________ .

Imagine, how would you feel having the thing you desire. Happy? Peaceful? Accepted? Relaxed? It is something which feels good, right?

And Law of Attraction works like this: if you feel that you don’t have and you focus on lack of the thing you desire, you will get more of this (more lack). When you focus on the good feeling, which is basically the feeling you want to experience, when your desire comes through, you get more of this. And your desire will come true. The opposite is not possible.

Ehmm, what I am trying to say is: Feel good first and anything else will follow.

I am feeling good, when:

  • walking in the nature, especially woods
  • at the sea and other waters (sitting by the sea, sailing, windsurfing, picking nicely shaped and coloured stones, soaking in the water, listening to the sound of water moving)
  • listening to masterpiece music
  • singing
  • dancing
  • enjoying my friends company
  • playing with cats and dogs
  • reading a good book (oh yeah :))
  • discovering new places, new things
  • discussing ideas
  • wathing a good movie
  • doing nothing 😀
  • coaching
  • doing anything connected with fashion and art
  • snuggling in my comfy, warm bed
  • listening or watching to Ester Hicks/ Abraham teachings
  • enjoying the company of LOA savy people at Good Vibe University
  • watching the wild colours of the sky, when the day is turning in the night
  • feeling sun on my cheeks
  • of course kissing and huging 🙂

Each and every of this activities brings me in to the place, where I enjoy myself, I am me and forget about the time and space. They raise my energetic vibration, which is needed if I want to manifest high vibing things/people/events. This is my manifesting tool box. What is yours? Make a list and go ahead – doing what feels good.

I am putting my winter boots on, going out in the woods, get my body moving, and make trails in the snow. It feels good. 😉


I said NO and I loved it!

Jorge Vidal: Woman with heart

How many times are you doing things because you think:

  1. It is appropriate.
  2. Other think it is appropriate.
  3. To please others.
  4. Because of social agreements ( for example: wanting a child, because this is socially required?).
  5. Other said to do it.
  6. You don’t know why…


And how many times are you doing things because:

  1. You really like it.
  2. You listen to Yourself.
  3. You can not resist not doing it.


The later is called inspired action. And sometimes inspired actions looks like saying: »No, I will not go to the party, beacuse I just don’t feel to.« Sometimes inspired action looks like taking a nap, getting our peace in solitude, listening to our favourite music or playing with our pet.

Start listening to your inner wisdom, to your inner voice, respecting your feelings and not walking all over them just because it is not appropriate (you might think so) to show that you are sad, angry, anxious and that you don’t agree with what was said.

I did this on Friday – I was invited on my friend’ s birthday party and was feeling like staying at home and having some peaceful evening with a book. I stood up for what I was really feeling and expressed it authentically (although they tried to convince me though ). Today I am so proud, that I did this. I respected my feelings. I got my peace and everybody is happy.

Before I discovered the Law of Attraction and power of Self-Love I would do anything to please others , because somewhere deeply inside I was afraid I will be perceived as not good enough, not worthy of love, bad and ugly.

The first person who has to respect Yourself is YOU. And once, you start respecting Yourself, others will follow. The relationship with Yourself is reflected in all your »outer« relationships.

Like attracts like.




p.s. and voice on the radio was singing: »Girl, you are amazing just the way you are.«


Listen to your words

Scientists say that we think around 50.000 thoughts daily. Now, if we want to use the Law of Attraction in our advantage, we have to start observing our thoughts. Our minds are like a garden, we have to take care for it that it will be able to flourish.  Planting positive thoughts, watering and nourishing them, adding new thoughts which will support the firstly planted, removing stones, rocks and weed – that kind of work is required.

Believe that with planting good seeds in the shape of positive thoughts you will get a beautiful flower. We don’t put the seed in the soil and think “Ah, it will never come out.” Or?

It is very important, that we know, what is in our garden, what kind of thoughts are we thinking. Start observing, what are your thoughts and beliefs* about:

1. Life in general

2. People

3. Relationships

4. Money

5.  what ever you want to manifest in your life

It is possible, that some of our beliefs are like rocks in the soil, preventing the plant to come out….When we remove it, the planted positive thought has a chance to manifest.

And now you might say: “Yes, and how possibly can I observe 50.000 thoughts, which are daily racing through my head?”. It is true, this is impossible (or it is just my limiting belief 😉 ? ).

It helps, when we listen to what we are talking. This is the easiest way to notice, what  are we REALLY thinking about the certain area of our life. Words are our thoughts spoken out loudly. Friends can support us with giving feedback if they notice the belief which might not serve us as it should.

I’m listening carefully. When I am speaking with friends, parents, co-workers, people on the street. I give special attention to areas, which are not working in my life  – with the intention to remove those rocky beliefs which are preventing my wishes to manifest.


* belief is nothing else than a prevailing thought about something or someone.

What is the Law of Attraction?

At conscious creation we are employing the Law of Attraction. You ever wondered, what the heck is this?

The Law of Attraction says: ” Like attracts like.” And as everything in its smallest particle is energy (our bodies, the chair, you are sitting on, computer you are typing on, your thoughts are the form of finest energy) and energy vibrates with different frequencies – the Law of Attraction matches the things/people, who have the same vibration.

In other words, the Law of Attraction brings you exactly the things, people and experiences which match your vibration.

That’s why usually when “bad things” start to happen to us, this doesn’t stop and we get only more of “bad”. It so called  downward spiral. Of course, we have also upward spiral – things are going well, maybe even great, we are happy, grateful and in different vibration (as the opposite of when we are in backwards spiral) and we are getting plenty of good stuff in our lives.

So our only job is to take care of our vibration. When we feel, we could be in downward spiral, we should put in conscious effort to find at least one good feeling thought and hang on it until we feel our vibration improved.

Before I was aware of LOA (Law of Attraction) my life would go like this:

1. my dog dies….. I am feeling really down, depressed and blaming people around me that they didn’t do anything to save him

2. next thing which happened, was a car accident…. how far things will go actually (was my thinking)? Luckily I wasn’t really injured – I got some bruises, nothing more.

3.  I had my wisdom tooth pulled out (this was neccessary actualy because of the lack of the space in my jaw) and they advised me to eat a lot of ice cream. Of course I did this more than necessary and got a pneumonia.

4. Ok. Here it actually stoped. Pneumonia provided me enough rest and sleep, I relaxed, let things go and continue with everyday life on  somewhat higher vibe.

Now, I am aware of the Law of Attraction I do it like this (this is true story, it is hard to talk about it, but it is really good example):

My father died two months ago. Tomorrow it will be (would be) his 70th birthday. In all the shock, anger, grief and sadness I was going through, I found one good thought: “At least he didn’t suffer long.” I felt relief. Next good thought was: “We never really die. Energy can’t be destroyed, he is still with us but not in physical form.”

I hanged on (still do) these thoughts and what I experienced was tremendous love, support, connectedness, inspiration and insights. On physical level – money began to pour in, new business clients, new friends, new business opportunities.

What matters the most is that you feel good. Ok – in circumstances as described above, you can not feel good, but at least find something what makes you feel better.

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